Hayley & jacob
May 17th, 2024
Tiburon, CA
Please follow the link above to RSVP. Kindly respond by April, 17th . Please also see Q&A section and schedule below for additional details!
We know many of you are traveling and taking time off, and we are honored you are joining us to celebrate. Your presence is truly a gift to us! A heartfelt card or solely the gift of your time is more than enough.
If you do feel compelled, we have a wishlist of items for our home, and a couple of ideas to contribute to making our honeymoon special.
Festivities
Friday, May 17th 2024
Ceremony
4:00 pm
Please arrive by 3:45 at Parking Lot C in Tiburon. Shuttles will begin taking guests to the church promptly at 3:45. There is no parking at the church!
Reception to follow
After the ceremony, shuttles will bring guests to Sam’s Anchor Cafe for the reception.
attire: formal (black-tie optional)
Saturday, May 18th 2024
Afterparty
The party continues on Saturday! Join us for a dance party at one of our favorite bars in SF for an evening of live DJing (by the couple and their friends!), dancing, and fun!
8:00 pm
Asiento
attire: Creative Cocktail! (see Q&A!)
Accommodations & Travel
How to get there
Where to stay
Tiburon is conveniently located just 15 miles from San Francisco, just on the other side of the bay! We recommend driving or Ubering.
There is a ferry that leaves from San Francisco to Tiburon that is also an option, however be aware that the ferry does not run at night.
More information to come on parking!
If you are flying, we suggest flying into SFO or OAK international airports. Both airports are easily accessible by Uber/Lyft and BART.
If you are coming from out of town, we recommend staying in Tiburon! We have a discount code at Waters Edge Hotel, which is located right next to Sam's Cafe.
Waters Edge Hotel
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25 Main St, Tiburon, CA 94920, USA
The Lodge at Tiburon
Located just down the street from our venue, The Lodge is also a great option. Check out the "offers & packages" page for available discounts.
tidbits
✢ How did you meet? ✢
H: My best friend since college, Stella, introduced us! She met Jake through mutual friends and thought we might hit it off. Actually, what she really told me was "I think I found your person!" I asked her to set us up on a date, and as it turns out - she was right!
J: We officially met at a friend’s show at Neck of the Woods - but didn’t go on a date until a week later. I was nervous about being set up on a date before moving to London - but I’m so glad I said yes!
✢ What is your favorite place you've traveled to together? ✢
H: It's hard to narrow down, but going to London together was a lot of fun. I loved getting a tour of all of Jake's favorite spots from when he lived there.
J: I really enjoyed the Amalfi coast and the beautiful sunsets from our balcony. Jumping into the Mediterranean Sea together was a true highlight.
✢ What is your favorite date spot in the city? ✢
H: This isn't actually in the city, but one of my favorite dates I took Jake on was up Mt. Tam to a spot called Trojan Point. It's high enough in elevation that when it's foggy in the city it's warm and sunny up there! We had a picnic dinner and watched the sunset.
J: Living in the Inner Richmond grants us easy access to Golden Gate Park, the Presidio & Ocean Beach and I love going on casual walks with Hayley through these beautiful places of nature. Finding a casual spot for a bite to eat along the way is always a treat!
Q&a
More information will follow when invitations are sent!
How do I get between Old St. Hilary's and Sam's Cafe?
We will be providing a shuttle! There is no parking at Old St. Hilary's, so we will have a shuttle pick up near Sam's Cafe and bring everyone back after the ceremony. More information on where to park will be shared closer to the date.
What is the dress code?
Friday night ceremony and reception is black-tie optional (formal) attire. For men - consider a dark suit or slacks and blazer, tie, and dress shoes. For women - long or tea length dresses or dressy separates.
When should I book my room?
The hotel we have a discount at is small! Reserve soon if you would like to stay there. The Tiburon lodge has more rooms, but we would recommend booking at least a couple months before to ensure availability.
When should I arrive for the ceremony?
The ceremony will start promptly at 4:00pm. Please plan to arrive in Tiburon by 3:45pm to make sure you have time to park and get on the shuttle up to the church. If you are late you might have to walk! There can be traffic on Friday afternoon, so we recommend leaving with plenty of time buffer. A more detailed schedule will be shared after invitations are sent out.
Will there be music and dancing at the reception? Or only at the after party?
There will be both music and dancing at the reception! We'll share our first dance and have a small dance floor. The party really continues on Saturday night at the after party.
Are the venues outdoors?
The ceremony will be inside the church, and the reception is hybrid indoor/outdoor (seating inside and outside on the deck). There will be heaters at the reception, but May can be chilly so please bring a sweater or jacket.
What is the dress code for Saturday night?
Creative Cocktail! We'd love to see you in your fun, sparkly cocktail attire - nothing is too bold (but don't over think it! We mostly want you there).
Why have an after party on Saturday?
We have so many friends and family that we want to celebrate with and can't do it all in one day! You are invited to the ceremony and reception on Friday, which will be a smaller and more intimate group. And we're so excited to also have a bigger more casual party on Saturday. That way we can continue celebrating with everyone who means so much to us all night long!
It's going to be a ton of fun, with a DJ line up that includes the bride and groom and their extremely talented friends. Feel free to come by for as long as you would like, we hope to see you there :)
Are children invited?
We love kids, but unfortunately our venue has very limited capacity and we can't invite everyone. For that reason, we are only inviting adults and children who are in the wedding party. We also thought you might want the night off! The Saturday after party is at a bar, and therefore only 21+ are allowed.
Please feel free to reach out if you have questions or concerns, or need help finding a local babysitter! We are happy to assist.
Help I have more questions!!
More detailed information to come! But feel free to text or email us :)
hayleyandjacobwedding@gmail.com
